Would you stop dating someone if they fessed up that they were lying about their age?

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Permalink Reply by Ronald R. Muller on June 6, 2009 at 6:11pm

I had been talking to a woman for a number of months, when we decided to meet. But, before we did, she confessed that she had lied about her age. I had told her from the outset, don't ever lie to me or if I find out, that will be the end. So, that was the end. She said in the beginning she didn't think it would lead to anything, so she didn't worry about it. One never knows where things will lead!!

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Permalink Reply by Dede on June 6, 2009 at 6:34pm

I do agree with you! I lie only in the profiles sometimes until the initial phone call. How much of a difference in age was it. Also, that does happen. Sometimes you don't ses the potential so you just don't ever discuss it.

It is a delicate thing. I have never found it really to be a problem since I fess up right at the onset but do understand it can upset some people.

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Permalink Reply by Ronald R. Muller on June 6, 2009 at 6:40pm

It was like 14 years, which is quite a bit. Plus, she never sent me her real pics, she sent some of someone else. At the end, she did send me her real pics. She wasn't bad looking, just didn't like that she had lied to me. You are different. You told me shortly after we had first talked. That is totally different. She had carried on the lie for about 4 months, if I remember correctly.

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Permalink Reply by Dede on June 6, 2009 at 6:44pm

14 years is quite a bit lol. I would not be interested either. You waste that long for nothing, I just did that for a few months with someone that was long distance. He acted very interested and we chatted daily but he disappeared when we started talking about really meeting.

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Permalink Reply by Dede on June 22, 2009 at 8:24pm

Wow.. that is a big difference.. how did that work out?

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Permalink Reply by Dede on June 22, 2009 at 8:54pm

Ouch.. doesn't sound like it was good for YOU! Hey, you are keeping me very busy here lol. I cannot keep up with you:)

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Permalink Reply by Steve Kelly on August 23, 2009 at 1:23pm

ok if it only 3 or 4 years.thats what i didnt like about aol your in a 40s and over chat room looking to talk with someone your age and it turns out your talking to 17 18 yearold

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Permalink Reply by Dede on August 23, 2009 at 7:33pm

I agree Steve. I know that I cannot filter everything but I do try and keep all the spam and scams off by reviewing the profiles on here. It nets us less members but they are quality members. Sometimes the fool me and I catch them pretty quickly!! Thanks for joining us.

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